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Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Knock and the door will be opened. Positivity Attraction Electricity Reaction
Labels: attraction, love, positive holla@me Sunday, August 19, 2007
Marriage. Women and men are told what a marriage is supposed to be. We as humans are born and must follow our parents rules, struggling to be recognized as independent. Then we become indepent, slowly defining and fine-tuning, finding our integral selves. We meet a person that is mutually attracted by our individuality and independence. We get engaged…the big day…then the marriage begins. But what is marriage? For some reason, we forget ourselves; sacrificing for the greater ___. We don’t talk about the changes we make in ourselves for “the marriage.” We keep silent about it – that we lose ourselves. And talking about it is very difficult because we are told marriage is about sacrifice. We don’t want to look ungrateful. We don’t want to explain that we feel ourselves a sham. We believe the lie that is told to us is marriage and we get pulled by the riptide and drug to the bottom by the undertow. It is sad because it doesn’t have to be that way. Why do we as a society think that the true measure of a successful marriage is to portray the Brady’s or Huxtable’s? Why do we think that dysfunction is arguing? The real dysfunction is pride - NOT talking; keeping the struggle inside and letting it fester. The person you fall in love with, who falls in love with you, believes that each is equally bringing their “true selves” to the table, flaws and all. When engagement and marriage is sealed with a kiss, what is forgotten is that what you each fell in love with is what you wanted to be bound to for the rest of your lives. It is a shame that the “fairytale” society tells us is to change, sacrifice and even suffer for the sake of that same fairytale. It is an injustice to ourselves, our children too, to continue to propagate a falsity that causes people to never speak or get needed help when things must be corrected – that those married don’t even feel they have the right to speak to their partner about concerns or problems. When a marriage is over and the reason given is “you’ve changed,” it is overlooked that the change was the loss of identity – the perceived sacrifices that were made. And someone is stuck thinking, “I made those sacrifices for you!” But think about it, did you make those sacrifices because you were asked or told to or because you thought that was your role in the relationship? We are taught that love and dedication is sacrificing, whether that is for your family, spouse, friends, job or children. To an extent that is true, but one thing I have told anyone that is closest to me, and asks me, is that you must take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone. That is key! You have to feel good about yourself if you want to show your love and dedication to any. Otherwise, the insecurities leak out and some people in this world will take advantage of that. Labels: change, dedication, family, love, marriage, sacrifice, spouse holla@me Saturday, July 28, 2007
If There's Any Justice-James Blunt If there's any justice in the world, I would be your man, You would be my girl, If i'd found you first you know its true, He would be alone, I would be with you. When you decide, dont let me down, Coz there's nothing to be certain in my life, And you've seen a thousand times There's not much justice in the world If there's any justice in your heart, You love really changed, Ease it into heart, Why dont you remember how it feels, Not to give a damn, For anyone but me I cant believe you'd be decieved, Changing memories from truth to fantasy, Where there's nothing left but tears, there's not much justice in the world Just because he's wrapped around your finger, Don't fool yourself with dreams that might appear, everytime you'll stop and trust your feelings, The truth is out there somewhere It's just blowing in the wind If there's any justice in the world, I would be your man, You would be my girl, If i'd found you first you know its true, He would be alone, I would be with you, When you decide, dont let me down, Coz there's nothing to be certain in my life, And you've seen a thousand times There's not much justice in the world If I should lose you girl you know, That theres not much justice in the world ~*~*~*~*~*~ Why can't I find someone like this? I sometimes feel there is no justice in the world. The only place I'll find a Love like this in in myself...in my dreams. *sigh* And I'm still waiting for rain. I've been unavilable everytime there is a shower. Labels: James Blunt, longing, love, sadness holla@me Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Can't believe it! Went looking for a few lyrics and found these...different versions too! I'm still reading them. This is what I've finished (and really enjoyed) so far. I guess I'll just keep adding to this blog... I'm lucky, I think, finding these. James Blunt - Alright Tonight Lyrics "If you want to you can stick around, 'Cause it’s alright, tonight," She said. "I will stay here, stay with you 'Cause you're alright, tonight." And I, I hoped that things would turn Out my way 'cause she's alright, tonight She said "This is fun! This is good; yes! It's alright, it's alright." (Chorus) Do you want this one night stand? Let's take a risk and go play in the sand. You can leave that ring on your finger. I'm a sinner, you're the winner; I am too. We made out now, we made up, yeah. We made love for the world cup I said, “I want things I've never had before.” She said, "Alright, tonight." So we entered heaven to accept our fate, And to sum it up baby, it was great, yeah. It's not often that I see the light but it's - it's alright, it's alright. (Chorus) Do you want this one night stand? Let's take a risk go play in the sand. You can leave that ring on your finger. I'm a sinner, you're the winner; I am too. Here she comes again now Here she comes again now Here we go again now [Do you want this one night stand] 3x [all right all right] (Chorus) Do you want this one night stand? Let's take a risk go play in the sand. You can leave that ring on your finger. I'm a sinner, you're the winner; I am too. 3x It's alright. 15x [You can leave that ring on your finger. I'm a sinner, you're the winner; I am too.] ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ James Blunt – In Flowers / Butterfly Lyrics You're A butterfly and you want to be in flowers and you want to meet Dalai Lama reach nirvana because I love you love me I just want you to be in flowers with me I'm A little child and I want to be held in your arms any fool can see that it's nothing new that I need you because I love you love me I just want you to see the little child in me there's A butterfly that’s in my heart it lives in me when we're apart but preferably you stay with me because I love you love me I just want you to be the butterfly in me &^%&^%&^%&^%&^%&^%&^%&^%&^% जेम्स ब्लुन्त - इत'एस नॉट एअस्य तो बी मे ल्य्रिच्स ई कैन’त स्टैंड तो फ्लाई ई’म नॉट ठाट नैव ई’म जुस्त आउट तो फंड थे बेत्तेर पार्ट ऑफ़ मे ई’म मोरे थान अ बर्ड…ई’म मोरे थान अ प्लेन मोरे थान सोम प्रेत्त्य फस बेसिदे अ ट्रेन इत’एस नॉट एअस्य तो बी मे विष ठाट ई कोउल्ड क्रय फाल उपों मय क्नीस फंड अ वय तो लिए अबाउट अ होम ई’ल नेवर सी इत मई सौन्द अब्सुर्द…बुत डॉन’त बी नैव एवें हेरोएस हवे थे राईट तो ब्लीद ई मई बी दिस्तुर्बेद…बुत वों’त यू कोन्सदे एवें हेरोएस हवे थे राईट तो ड्रीम इत’एस नॉट एअस्य तो बी मे उप, उप ऎंड अवय…अवय फ्रॉम मे इत’एस अल राईट…यू कैन अल स्लीप सौन्द तोनिघ्त ई’म नॉट क्रेज्य…ओर अन्य्थिंग… ई कैन’त स्टैंड तो फ्लाई ई’म नॉट ठाट नैव में वेरें’त मेंत तो रीड विथ क्लौड्स बेत्वीं थेइर क्नीस ई’म ओनली अ मन इन अ सिल्ली रेड शीट दिग्गिंग फ़ॉर क्र्य्प्तोनिते ओं थिस वन वय स्ट्रीट ओनली अ मन इन अ फुन्न्य रेड शीट लूकिंग फ़ॉर स्पेशल थिंग्स इनसाइड ऑफ़ मे इत’एस नॉट एअस्य तो बी मे. Labels: anger, frustration, James Blunt, love, lust holla@me |
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