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Friday, May 14, 2004 my bestest-guy friend (not my dude) got married at The Baltimore Zoo Mansion House. It was so beautiful and wonderful. His middle sister was sick and couldn't drink, even though she had been waiting for a year to do so. So, I drank for her! It was nice; I didn't get trashed and fall on the floor; I wasn't incoherent and screaming or crying. It was just great. I was crying, as I am prone to do at weddings, so happy for them both. He really loves her. If he didn't, he never would have married her. That is the thing about S-, he tells you what is on his mind and he doesn't do anything he doesn't want to do. He even danced with the bride; something that he doesn't do often. J- said, "He must love me."
"Girl," I said, "Of course he loves you! "You know how he is; he won't do what he doesn't want to do."
What I told to my dude was, "If she doesn't know by now how much he loves her, she doesn't deserve him."
It was funny, toward the end of the night, Marvin Gaye came on and of course my dude needed to be right on the dance floor with me. Apparently from how we were dancing, the groom stated, "Share the love!" I told him, with a "fuck you" grin, "Find your wife." heehee
It was classic.
I've known S- since 1993 when I popped up at his drafting cubicle, asking him if he was in a band. Come to find out, he is a Poly alumnus (I am a Western alumna) and we "met" each other there. Poly and Western share a campus. I also "met" him at The Rage, which is defunct but it WAS a kick-ass punk club that showcased local talent. And YES, he was in a band...but I hadn't seen `em play. I was actually the front-woman of that band for about 1-1/2months...Inez became defunct, but the KISS-MY-ASS spirit lives on!!! And S-, the sweetie, told me at the reception, "A-, you are much more than a friend; you're a BAND-MATE!"
Right on Baby! *muah*
There is a lot to the story and I think I should maybe make a story out of it, changing the names and all and making some subtle changes to the storyline.

It was just terrific to watch the ceremony and celebrate his marriage. May every day enrich and add to the next. I love you.
holla@me posted by MobiusRazor at 09:33